life is a bowl of cherries; so why spend it in the pits?

i think that a lot of people stress upon all of the unhappy, depressing, and anger stricen things in their life. i mean yeah, there is going to be disappointment and things that don't make it easy to smile but, there's always something to be thankful for. if a hobo can smile because someone has supplied them with a blanket, why can't you smile because you have a bed? when your unhappy you set off a negative mood around you. let go of your negative chaos and embrace the things that make you smile because at the end of the day that's all that really matters.

Caution Tape, why wear it?

Okay so maybe you’re crazy, and maybe you’re abnormal, or maybe you just can’t hold in life’s humor. But, why should you? Life without humor is bland and boring like the people that tell you that you’re immature. Doesn’t everybody stress upon how unoriginal other people are? But usually the people that are talking about originality truly have none themselves. We all walk around and hide our thoughts and feelings when someone says something, but why? After all if it’s not nice it’s constructive criticism, so get on it. Don’t hide yourself to make other people happy, cause then you’re just draining out your own happiness to satisfy others.         

Learning to Lose.

It’s hard to look around and realize that they’re not really there anymore. I’ve always talked myself into believing that when I lose someone I love that they are just gone for the moment. I’ve never really been able to accept lost; maybe because I have strength to move on to the next day, if I make myself believe that they are still here. I mean even if you lose someone for the moment, it’s hard to cope with it because you’re so use to being by their side that you take them for granted. So maybe the key to this post isn’t learning how to lose but, rather learning to love them while you’ve got them. Losing ranges from something as small as a nail to something as heart wrenching a love, or someone you love. So instead of living with regret why don’t we love what we have while we got it, so then when we lose it there wasn’t anything that you wish you could’ve done differently?    

it's really only you .

you never really realize how much you love yourself until you become completely comfortable with you. you can't always run and hide your feelings when someone comes knocking at your door. everybody in one way or another "hides" themselves because they can't face themselves so they feel no one else can handle them either. honestly if you don't open your heart to all the possibilties and the people surrounding your existance you'll never truely be happy. how long are you going to sit there and pretend that your happy with the person that you've created when right beneath them is someone so much more special and important? when are you going to wake up and smell the coffee? if you feel that nobody will be happy with the person that you really are then they don't deserve to have a sliver of you. it's time to throw away the mask because life is knocking and it's your turn to answer.